It is OBVIOUS !

It's kinda annoying sometimes when people ask you what you are doing when it is really obvious for them to know. Here are some of the related situations and (suggested) answers:

Situation 1 :
Bila org nmpak ko baring tutup mata and the he/she asks,
"ko tidur ka ?"
your stunning answer is, "tidak la. sy training mcm mana maw mati ba ni."

Situation 2 :
Ko bawa TV yang rosak pg tmpat technician (to fix it) and he asks, "maw kasi bagus ka ni TV?"
your stunning answer, "tidak la. sy bawa ni TV jalan-jalan jak sini."

Situation 3 :
Kau baru bangun tidur, then someone asks you, "ko bngun sudah ?"
your stunning answer, "sy tdur smbil jalan ba ni."

Situation 4 :
One of your friend call your house phone number and he/she asks, "mana ko ?"
your stunning answer, "di bus stop."

Situation 5 :
Ada orang nmpk ko baru kluar dari bilik mandi basah-basah and he/she asks, "ko baru mandi ka ?"
your stunning answer, "Sy jatuh di lubang jamban." OR.. for guys maybe the answer would be different la kan ? *cough*

Situation 6 :
Ko di tandas, pintu berkunci, terus ada org ketuk pintu tanya, "ada orang kah ?"
your stunning answer, (buat suara kiut and answer..) "teda orang ! taie yang bcakap ni."


HA.HA. bikin panas kan ? but sometimes I will ask the same question like in situation 1, 3 and 5 because it's kinda awkward when you don't say anything.

ps// sorry for the incompatibility language used.

Raya di Tanah Semenanjung

Semua orang sibuk packing maw balik raya.. saya pun sibuk packing juga. packing kepala otak dengan assignment. WOW ! Am I the only one who are not thrilled about going back ? I don't know. but I really don't have this kind of feeling. I mean the feeling of being excited balik d kampung beraya. I'm not the only one who are not going back right? I just have this sort of thinking.. Ada lagi orang lama x balik. sampai bertahun-tahun. And me ? it has only been 2 months since I returned from Sabah. It's not a big deal for me. Lagi pun bulan 12 ni balik Sabah lagi. Advances in technology make the distance shorter. handphone kan ada maw wish dengan family.

So, my point is.. xpayah  la kesian atau ada perasaan simpati lagi empati to those who are not going back to their hometown especially the West Malaysian (in my context). This is what we call it being independent. :)

ps/ kalau kesian.. bawa la biskut & duit raya skali utk org yg x balik. kesian jak x cukup. tee hee. :)

ps// You won't enjoy your Raya's holiday burdened by assignments. :P 

I don't talk crap about my friend here

Sometimes you will have this kind of dissatisfaction towards your friend / best friend / BFF about something. Well, might be.. you did not like the way he/she behave but you are scared to tell her directly. Scared that it might hurt him/her. Or maybe.. he/she did something that really hurt you and again.. you are scared to tell her and you started to hold your grudge towards him/her. This kind of conflict really happen not only to me but almost to everyone and most of us will take the resolution of it by avoidance. Yah.. I admit that was I always do when it happens to me. However, now.. Some (or maybe MOST) people will post in their Facebook/blog/other social networkers and tell people about their dissatisfaction about something. It's like telling the whole world about your 'unnecessary' problem.

Come on lah.. banyak lagi benda yang kita boleh share. Of course la.. u punya blog u punya suka la. Tapi.. kalau post mcm tu pun benda tu bukan boleh selesai. menambahkan masalah adalah. 

Why don't you confront the person and tell him/her in a very polite and good manner rather than you post in your social networkers/blog expecting him/her to read it and get hurt.

Pepatah Melayu ada berbunyi, mengata dulang paku serpih, mengata orang dia yang lebih. When you post something bad about that people for everyone to know, automatically you are like revealing people your bad side of yourself. Let practice the not-everyone-is-perfect thought. Peace !