Raya di Tanah Semenanjung

Semua orang sibuk packing maw balik raya.. saya pun sibuk packing juga. packing kepala otak dengan assignment. WOW ! Am I the only one who are not thrilled about going back ? I don't know. but I really don't have this kind of feeling. I mean the feeling of being excited balik d kampung beraya. I'm not the only one who are not going back right? I just have this sort of thinking.. Ada lagi orang lama x balik. sampai bertahun-tahun. And me ? it has only been 2 months since I returned from Sabah. It's not a big deal for me. Lagi pun bulan 12 ni balik Sabah lagi. Advances in technology make the distance shorter. handphone kan ada maw wish dengan family.

So, my point is.. xpayah  la kesian atau ada perasaan simpati lagi empati to those who are not going back to their hometown especially the West Malaysian (in my context). This is what we call it being independent. :)

ps/ kalau kesian.. bawa la biskut & duit raya skali utk org yg x balik. kesian jak x cukup. tee hee. :)

ps// You won't enjoy your Raya's holiday burdened by assignments. :P 

I don't talk crap about my friend here

Sometimes you will have this kind of dissatisfaction towards your friend / best friend / BFF about something. Well, might be.. you did not like the way he/she behave but you are scared to tell her directly. Scared that it might hurt him/her. Or maybe.. he/she did something that really hurt you and again.. you are scared to tell her and you started to hold your grudge towards him/her. This kind of conflict really happen not only to me but almost to everyone and most of us will take the resolution of it by avoidance. Yah.. I admit that was I always do when it happens to me. However, now.. Some (or maybe MOST) people will post in their Facebook/blog/other social networkers and tell people about their dissatisfaction about something. It's like telling the whole world about your 'unnecessary' problem.

Come on lah.. banyak lagi benda yang kita boleh share. Of course la.. u punya blog u punya suka la. Tapi.. kalau post mcm tu pun benda tu bukan boleh selesai. menambahkan masalah adalah. 

Why don't you confront the person and tell him/her in a very polite and good manner rather than you post in your social networkers/blog expecting him/her to read it and get hurt.

Pepatah Melayu ada berbunyi, mengata dulang paku serpih, mengata orang dia yang lebih. When you post something bad about that people for everyone to know, automatically you are like revealing people your bad side of yourself. Let practice the not-everyone-is-perfect thought. Peace !